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Sunday, September 11, 2005

If I've Learned Anything...

...I've learned that you can get by on charm for about 15 minutes. After that, you'd better know something
...I've learned that you shouldn't compare youself to the best others can do, but to the best you can do.
...I've learned that it's not what happens to people that is important. It's what they do about it
...I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you a heartache for life
...I've learned that no matter how thin you slice it, there are always two sides
...I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be
...I've learned that it's a lot easier to react than it is to think
...I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them
...I've learned you can keep going long after you think you can't
...I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel
...I've learned that I can't visit a bookstore without buying something
...I've learned that either you control your attitude, or it controls you
...I've learned that sometimes I just need to be held
...I've learned that no matter how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and their had better be something to take its place
...I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences
...I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice
...I've learned that when the light turns green, you had better look both ways before proceeding
...I've learned that you can love someone and still not like him very much
...I've learned that when I'm given a choice of 31 flavors of ice cream, I still choose vanilla
...I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it
...I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score
...I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time
...I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up
...I've learned that good quality underwear is worth the extra cost
...I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel
...I've learned that friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance
...I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all that they have
...I've learned that no matter how much I care, some peopl just don't care back
...I've learned that no matter how old I am, I want my mom when I'm hurting
...I've learned that maturity has more to do withwhat types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you have celebrated
...I've learned that you should never tell a child his dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if he believed it.
...I've learned that your family won't always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren't biological
...I've learned that no matter how good a friend someone is, they're going to hurt you once in a while, and you must forgive them for that
...I've learned that commercials for feminine hygeine products always come on when you are sitting in a room with men
...I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself
...I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken, the world does not stop for your grief
...I've learned that boys only rub your back to find out if you are wearing a bra
...I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are but we are responsible for who we become
...I've learned that sometimes when my friends fight, I'm forced to choose sides even when I don't want to
...I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean that they don't love each other, and just because they don't argue, doesn't mean that they do
...I've learned that sometimes you have to put the individual ahead of their actions
...I've learned that it takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it
...I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change
...I've learned that if you don't want to forget something, stick it in your underwear drawer
...I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
...I've learned that the clothes I like the best are the ones with the most holes in them
...I've learned that it's no fun putting on a wet swimsuit
...I've learned that it's not what you have in your life but whom you have in your life that counts
...I've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different
...I've learned that peeing in the woods with a couple of friends can be an amazing bonding experience
...I've learned that a good friend is better than a therapist
...I've learned that sandwiches cut diagonally taste better
...I've learned that you're never too old for slumber parties
...I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved
...I've learned that competing with a friend over a man is fun unless one of you actually wins
...I've learned that it's hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting feelings and standing up for what you believe in.

3 Comments:

  • At 10:58 PM, Blogger JR said…

    yes..and there's more :)
    I like vanilla too.

     
  • At 12:57 AM, Blogger JR said…

    Let me rephrase that.
    Its amazing that we can learn this much and yet still have so much more to learn...like how to leave comments that don't sound condescending when you reread them an hour later. :)

     
  • At 12:58 AM, Blogger JR said…

    I still like vanilla

     

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